MY opinion on ....

after i went out with me mates this evening i was inspired to:

1) update my blog

2) came up a topic to share on my blog..

hahah!! it's been a while since my last post... and just today i was being presented with a business proposal about e-education or like what they named it 'webucation' [erma jgn kecik hati ya~ this is only my opinion.. heheh! ^^]  


okay the thing is.. those online education is good.. not that i'm against it.. but for it to be the main method of studying for me is not a good idea.. i mean what happens to the good old fashion way of studying? where it teaches you about hard work and at the same time you learned about the things that you're studying.. this brings me to this: nowadays people are trying hard to make their children smart in education... like in maths or science and stuff.. don't they know that this gives the children stress.. can you imagine a 6 year old  already have stress? isn't it to much for a child? aren't you supposed to start gaining stress when you are like at the end of your teens??

being smart is good.. its a gift.. you use it well you get success.. you don't use it its your lost. but not all people are being born smart.. where this kind of people needs to study hard to achieve their goal.. without hard work they will be a nobody with nothing in their future even if they're born in a rich family.

but i found that forcing your child to score A in every exams on every subject is ridiculous! YES! to me it is.. you see no matter how many A's your child get in an exam doesn't mean they'll ace in life. and here i thought that we study for your life. i have been living with that in my mind.. no matter what you get in your exams does nothing to your life.. yes you can get into the college that you wanted.. yes you'll be look up to by the people around you and yes you'll have a good record in your studies and so on.. like i said not all people are born smart.. so they will be a portion of people out there who scored all this by just memorising all the things that they need to remember for them to answer the questions given in the examinations. where this will make them end up just memorising the facts where they should actually understand the facts. (okay somehow i'm lost here.. hahah! =D)

i have observes students out there (where ever it is i end up studying ;p) most of them who got good grades in school doesn't get good grades while in university and some doesn't do well while they had started their working life.. why? this is what i think the reason is : usually those Ace student nowadays are to preoccupied with their studies that they end up having 'cultural shcok' when they're in the outside life. emotionally, psychically and mentally. why? because what you study in school doesn't teach you what life outside of school is all about.

(okay lari dari my main purpose here, haha!)

now back to what i wanted to say.. what i wanted to say was.. what happen to 'study for life'? study for your future.. nowadays all i see is parents trying their hard to earned money to get their children to enrolled into some prestige school somewhere, where they actually teach the same subject like in any other schools.what difference does it make? okay they may use a different approach.. but some other kids from some normal government school could do better than those kids from the prestige school anyway~ so why the fuss? i see that most parents is working their ass up just to make sure that their child wont live a hard life like what they have been through or so,.. i think~ ^^ and this is making the kids getting used to being 'spoon feed' that they forgot what 'hard work' is all about and how important it really is in life. they will be expecting everything to be spoon fed to them 'coz thats what they have been growing up to all those years. of course there's the saying "you are never to late to study" but to me this saying doesn't apply to 'hard work'. to me hard work is something you develop when you were a child while you are in a process of learning regardless on what's the subject.

anyway, i have been hearing people keep on saying that kids should not be pressure with studies and all this shit.. but why do i still see people are still forcing their kids to be smart/clever. i mean what ever happens to leave the child be? let them decide what they want to be? all i see now is that the children is living up their parents dream.. the dream that they once upon a time wish they could get.

(i'm getting of course again..ah! who cares! ^^)

well to me just support what the child is interested in and not forcing them to be what they're not is what we're supposed to do.. but hen again who am i to say all this? who is going to listen and respond to me? i'm just a nobody in this world.. well i'm a nobody for now.. ^^

well i'm having the so-called writer's block.. hah! somehow i have forgotten what more i wanted to say .. so i'll stop for now~  till next time. ;)

mai's birthday!

it's ur birthday! 

thank GOD you were born on this date in the year 1987.. 

though you're one year older than me

but to me you are the same age as me! 

hoho!!

[bangga lerr awak muda lagi!~ ]

i dont know what would i become if you weren't there for me

when i need you..

sorry for bothering you with my whining! ahahah!!

u're my place to 'ngerepak' about others :)

hehehe..

you will always be my partner in crime!

crime yg sik crime enough!

ahahah!! >w<

you know i love you! 

anyway again..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

^_^

p/s: i have your present p sik tauk bila mok merik! ahahahahah!!!! btw.. if this sucks i'm sorry!! hhohoho!!! ^^

 

what happens when my brain thinks too much.. ^_^

the reason for my blog this this time at this hour [5.10 a.m] is because that i couldn't sleep.. at all.. i've been having insomnia this past few days.. and what causes this to happen? it was simply because i was thinking of too many things in my life lately.. 

maybe it is because the thought of someone my age or even younger can be successful in what they love to do makes me anxious to just sit and do nothing.. [nothing = to just enjoy my time before i went on a job hunt -which in my case i was recently eager to work in a restaurant-based field] <-- that was when i decided before i have all this thoughts.. 

i think my problem is that i'm the type of person you just cant rushed to make a decision.. especially when it involved my future and me in it.. i have conclude that:

• i am the kind of person who just love working.. no matter what kind of work it is.. i just realised this now.. this is because the thought of me doing some works that need to be submitted to someone that is important [or so] makes me excited.. some how.. heheheh..[except for house work. hahahah!! maybe because i'm living with my parents.. huhuhuuu~ ^^]
• i hate studying! especially when i am being forced too.. like school and such.. its like i have to study not because i want to its because i have to.. but studying on my own will i like.. its because i want to.. get the point?

so what i wanna say is that me hating interior designing is not true.. NOT TRUE! i somewhat like it.. heck its like what i have been thinking about my whole life.. now that i realised it.. everywhere i go all i think about is design.. of course when i was a kid i didn't know what was i thinking... but DESIGN is the only thing that i thought about alot... so i've decided to just work in an interior design firm for a few years.. to gain my knowledge and what not.. in the same time i could study about business and restaurants/culinary by myself.. there's alot of self study books sells out there in the world.. so since i am a smart kid i know i can juggle all this together in a few years preparing myself  for my future which is what i really want to do in life.. which is:

• to open a coffee house.. >w
• to manage an interior design firm.. with my friends as a partner of course! 
• maybe, open a boutique shop. with the style that i like.. hihi..
• and last TRAVELLING!!!! 

wish me all the best! and success in my future! i know i will work my ass up for it! hohOHOHO!

this is all thanks to me being on my so-called holiday i guess.. my head was too wrapped up with me avoiding to continue my studies in interior design which my parents keep on insisting me.. and taking a wrong turn here and there.. and i was being rushed to make decisions right after whatever that's happening to me that it makes me or my head to be exact be in a very complicated situations that i cant think things clearly.. like i said before  i am the type of person who cant be rushed to make a decisions.. i think too much.. and i cant avoid that habit of mine.. i think about things too much and into every details that i cant make such decision in such short short time.. forgive me... but that is just the habit that i myself cant throw it away.. its how i am.. i cant change that part of me.. so here i hope that whoever involves in this understands me now..now that i understands myself a bit more.... 

i guess my parents will be like "i thought that you hate id.. blah blah blah.." and so on.. but what can i do.. i was being pushed and rushed.. i can think well.. *sighs* 

now that this is out of my chest.. i could go on a job hunting easily..[ not that getting a job is easy.. heheh.. i mean my mind here is at ease.. :)]  no wonder i was having this feeling of "teragak agak" when i was just browsing through the jobs section in the papers.. i was considering about everything... i was making too many excuses to avoid me applying for jobs as a kitchen helper...heheheh.. :) 

i guess all i need was just a break from everything and i do mean EVERYTHING for a while just to get my head straight..  ^w^

sumthing short..

i'm on my way finishing the manga "SPECIAL A" by maki minami. i've watch the anime like 2 years ago or so.. and i've just started reading the manga last week... because before this i was to damn lazy to indulge myself in a 99 + 1 chapters of the manga.. kekekeke! ^_^ anyway why i like maki minami's work? coz the drawings are so hilarious. the funny ones ofcourse.. and the guys are just so damn HOT! *drooling* + daydreaming here! the stupid idotic scenes just makes me crack! here's one of the funny looking but cute drawing of minami maki : hikari's dumb struck face.

and more of this cute dummy looking drawings in maki's manga.. huhuhuh! you just gotta read to search for it.. ^_^

future planning!

okay... i know.. "what's up with the coffee picture?" right?.. well the thing is my dream is to open a COFFEE HOUSE.. aint that superb! heheheh!! to me it is! i wanted to open ones like bing!, coffee bean, starbucks and such! sound kinda far fetch? well people say "you dream hard work hard and you'll achieve it!" well that's what I say.. ahahaha!! never mind.. but that is not my one and only.. i have many things to do.. i wanna open restaurants & cafes of all kinds! and probably an id firm. well hey atleast my diploma has a use in my life anyway.. hihihi!! ^_^ but to go that far i need a supports from everyone.. and i do mean EVERYONE!... for now i may have my friends support.. but i still dont get my family full support.. which is the most important support that i need... yes i know i dont have that culinary skills but i can pay people! ahah! hahahah!! i can cook but i dont have the skills... but whatever it is i think that i'm going to be in the business life people! yeah! you guys out there just wait and see me POP! hehehe!!! wish me luck! ^_^

korean guys i love! ^v^

guess what?? i just found new cute guy for me to drool at it's mir from mblaq.. he's cute!~ ohoh!! oh i never say this before but i love korean idols! wuhoo!! they are so damn cute, hot, fine.. you name it! ahaha!! so here's a list of them that i like! kyaa!~ ^^ (just thinking 'bout it makes my heart beats fast! ;)

Jang Geun Suk

Kim Young Woon a.k.a Kangin

Kwon Ji Yong a.k.a G-Dragon

Lee Seung Gi

Kim Jun Su a.k.a Xiah Junsu

Lee Hong Ki

Kim Tae Pyeong a.k.a Hyun Bin

Gong Ji Cheol a.k.a Gong yoo

Kim Jong Hyun

Lee Min Ho

Bang Chul Yong a.k.a Mir

the list doesn't end here.. there's so many of them.. this are among the ones that i like most..and they have one thing in common : their smile! oh i just fall for that smile... ^v^ eheheh!! some are actors and some are singers.. and most of them can do both! ngeee! (^_____^) for those who cant see how i'm reacting to this post let me tell you i am literally grinning from ear to ear.. just by browsing their pictures in the net is enough to make me happy! (for the time being ofcourse! ahaha!! ^^) aaaaaahhh!~ *droolsss*

dhilah! happy birthday!!!!! ^_^

IT'S YOU!

you were born on this day

thank you for still being alive

thank you for still staying friends

though you know that i'm annoying! ahah!!

you are one of my dearly beloved friends

whom i know the longest..14 YEAR

that is how long we have been friends

hope that we will still forever will be

BEST FRIENDS untill the day we die

you know i LOVE you

no matter how busy a woman you are..

heheheh! and lastly :

HAPPY BRITHDAY!!!!!!

^v^

LOVE:

MIZAH

p/s: sorry if this sucks! ahahah!! i dont know what to say actually and i didnt forget it this year yeah!! hihihi!.. ada agik~ anyway love ya! and miss ya! ^^ muah muah! ^3^